Steve Marsden2026/04/24

Blackpool recommendations

Whether you are new to Blackpool or looking for a change.

I do occasionally have personal suggestions I am proud to associate myself with.

Click on their names to view their websites


 

The Molly House

Perfectly located on the same road as Funny Girls and minutes away from all the gay nightlife and all that Blackpool has to offer. Stay in this charmingly beautiful victorian style guest house with its genuinely friendly welcoming hosts.

 

The Pride Lodge

Great friendly place to stay opposite the train station, so easy to reach all the best local bars, and walking distance to the town centre and all its attractions.

 

The Mardi Gras

What can I say, we all know and love this place. Best drinks prices, friendly welcome from John and his amazing bar team and door staff. You will not only find excellent accommodation, but regular top class entertainment and a fun night out.

 

Evanescent

Just around the corner from Lord Street and Dickson Road, minutes from all the other great bars, you will find this colorful bar and guest house with a friendly welcome and home to the wonderful Lucy Liqueur, and Nye of course, to entertain you on your evening out.

 

Trades hotel & bar

Well known men only bar,  with a friendly bar and door team. A great place to meet people, chill out, chat, play pool or wander around the venue for alternative entertainment.

 

 

Steve Marsden2023/08/20

Questions

FAQ's

You may have questions that you feel too simple or are embarassed to ask, but rest assured I adhere to client confidentiality. But here are some frequent questions asked:


Massage

1. Will I be naked

Yes, as my style flows from top to bottom, but if you do require a towel, then please ask.

2. What if I get turned on?

This is normal, as the circulation of your blood flow is being stimulated and due to the pleasureable feeling of the touches to your body. Do not worry, I have seen many, so no need to be embarassed.

3. Is there a happy ending?

My massage is intended for relaxation, not sexual.

(Ask discreetly in advance if you would like to discuss)

4. What areas do you massage?

Back, neck, head, shoulders, arms, buttocks, legs. I also do a little face massage at the end too.

If there are areas you prefer not to be touched, or a bit longer on the legs for e.g please let me know. It is best to have all the areas mentioned massaged to fully appreciate the circulation and relaxation of all your body areas.

5. Do the oils smell?

I use essential oils to enhance your experience, so yes you will smell of those oils afterwards. If you are preferring discretion and need to leave with no trace, please let me know beforehand, so I can omit the essential oils from the mix.

6. Is there a shower available?

No, sorry.

If you are concerned about residue oil, this can be wiped off with a towel, however it is best to allow the oils to be absorbed into your skin to feel the benefits.

So, do not arrive wearing your most expensive clothes!

I also request that clients arrive as clean and fresh as possible.

Waxing

1. Will it hurt?

It is possible, as we all have different pain barriers, I suggest if you have never had a wax before, then to start with a less sensistive area like the back or bum.

2. How long does it last?

Again, we are all different, it grows back different in everyone, and can depend on how your previous hair removal regime has been. Once you get into a routine, you may find it lasts longer in-between treatments.

3. Do I need to trim before my 1st wax?

This depends how long the hair growth is, ideally it needs to be between 1/4 to 1/2 inch long. The longer it is, the more it will hurt as it comes out.

4. What do I need to do before and after a treatment?

Please read the information provided in the waxing section


If there are any questions or concerns you have, then please ask.

* If you don't ask, then you will never know.

Steve Marsden2023/08/02

Information

Massage benefits

A massage helps us to feel good physically & emotionally aiding relaxation and the calming of our body & soul. This enables us to work more efficiently, as it stimulates every part of our being.

It releases physical & emotional tension, but also helps the lymphatic system to push out the excess toxins that we accumulate on a daily basis through food, drink and the air we breathe. Bacteria and infections are constantly attacking us, we need a healthy immune system to combat them

The more work we create for our bodies to cope with, the harder it is for our circulation, our lymphatic system, our liver, kidneys, nervous systems.

Massage stimulation affects and helps all of these areas and more


Aromatherapy benefits


Combining massage with

Aromatherapy oils

enhances the benefits for e.g. pressure/stress relief, anxiety,

insomnia, depression, muscular aches,

dry skin, boosting of circulation & immune system,

clarity of the mind

assisting positive thinking


A healthier body & soul means our internal organs have less work to do, so we can focus more on our untapped potential when our bodies are functioning normally, without having to filter all the junk we ingest, and our minds are clearer, our ability to visualise, to create and be more proactive becomes easier, allowing our positive energy to flow freely

Your body requires exercise & nutrition too, the correct balance of carbohydrates, proteins, fibre, fats, aminos, vitamins are all important in the function of your mind, not just your body.

Certain foods and alcohol take longer to burn off calorific content than others.

Junk food has very little nutrient value and you end up wasting your valuable energy digesting it and getting nothing in return


Essential oils


I use therapeutic oils which have an ISO certificate

and are not tested on animals.

Oils must be of this quality which contain the

natural chemical constituents,

to have any beneficial effect on you.

Oils have a small molecular structure

and when applied through massage

will penetrate your skins layers

and travel through your body

via the oxygen and flow of your blood,

assisting your lymphatic system

along the way and stimulating

all the senses within to help

release your bodies natural chemicals

of for e.g

seratonin and endorphins



General safety information

It is advised not to use essential oils without proper aromatherapy training.

Never take them internally or use undiluted on the skin without the advice of a qualified therapist.

If you have any medical issues then oils should be used with care, especially those with epilepsy, pregnant, liver damage, cancer.

Any concerns or doubts should be discussed with your Medical Doctor prior to treatment.

It is not advisable to discontinue any prescribed medicines without consulting your GP


These are some of my current favourite oils,

if there are particular oils you like, let me know when you come, and I can purchase for your next treatment

Citronella   Good for the mind, although it does have a pungent smell, insects are not keen on it, especially mozzies, I always add to my sun cream

Eucalyptus  Great antiseptic, i always put in my burner if a cold is coming on

Lime   I use this daily in my moisturiser to give me a zest for the day ahead

Lavender   I use for helping me relax, either a drop on my pillow, or oil burner, and also in moisturiser, many many uses

Lemon I like using this in massage, but also in cleaning the home, great for removing sticky marks too when used neat.

Peppermint   I find this helps my aching feet, good to help concentration in an oil burner, a great ant repellant, use in a spray bottle, like any oil to refresh your room or clothes

Red mandarin   For relaxation, meditation

Tea Tree   Not an oil I use in massage, as it is too pungent, mostly use on insect bites, grazes, and in cleaning the home

White Camphor   I use this on clients with aches and strains to help the muscles, great in use with peppermint, very refreshing